I found this little picture on a fitness page on Facebook. I thought it was so spot on to our thinking on women in society.
Society does teach girls to hate their bodies. We teach it in magazines. We teach it on TV. We teach it on the internet. We teach it on the street. We teach it at home. We place a woman’s value on her figure rather than on her brain or her personality. Little girls pick up on this at an early age and decide that they are not “okay” just the way they are.
I am sure there are men out there who do care about a girlfriend or wife’s personality in becoming a partner for them but I also think that at least 75% of men, if not more, place the worth of their girlfriend or wife on how she looks. That in turn makes the man look better if he has a more attractive female on his arm. I believe the majority of men would date or marry a woman with a less than desirable personality if she is really hot. The less attractive females get left our regardless of their brains or personalities. Girls pick up on this at a young age as well. There have been some quotes from girls that they would rather be dead than fat. I’m sure some adult women have said this as well (even if I haven’t seen the quote).
Someday I hope that we teach little girls to value themselves on their brains and personalities over the shape of their bodies. I believe in teaching healthy living and fitness, but not placing one’s worth on it.